Loving is Daring !

Love ...Love ...Love !

We can hear these words everywhere but if we go out to search even a single example of true love we will get disappointed. Actually it is a truth that getting true love is not everyone's capability. To get love we have to give love. It sounds so simple, that's the reason why lots of people are loving or can boast to get love. But is it really so ?

According to me

"Love means to take care of somebody without caring about yourself."

The problem is only that most of us can not care for others. We only want others to take care of us, we only want others to love us. This seems quite confusing because many will claim that they do love other person and care for him/her. But the fact is little different, actually they do not love other person but only choose him for themselves and want that person should care for them. It is the only fact. Tell me how many can claim that they do not want other to necessarily return their love ?

How many are sure that they will keep on loving a person who is not returning their love ? I am sure not even point zero zero one (0.001%) percent will be able to do so if asked. Some will try and may even go for sometime but soon they will be tired, reason ? The reason is they were never in love but were only expecting love. When after their all efforts they are not able to get love they will quit and search for another lover. If someone is truly in love he or she can never be distracted form his/her love.

Actually in love only the true feeling of giving gives pleasure and satisfaction. Receiving is only the bonus not the right of lover.